You need to chill
for one week i didnt feel like going out
but i did anyway because i have amazing wings that i wanted to hang out with
results was that i only did approaches to self amuse and because my friends were there and we were "picking up chicks"
i noticed that by the end of the week i had lost my ability to chill because i didnt do it for one week
i noticed that my results were terrible and that i didnt have any solid interaction with any woman during that week
i also noticed that day game helps you chill because you dont have friends and music and fun to help you self amuse hence you dont really do it
you just chill
so you need to chill
its essential
its the base of everything
if you cant chill make a concious effort to be chill
do day game its gonna teach you how to pick up chicks and be chill
yeah you can be all fun and energy and shit and itll be awesome to hang out around you
but then its not that easy to instantly fall back into chillness
when youre chill its harder to fake youre speaking more from you core feelings
hence if you dont feel like picking up chicks or youre scared you might be tempted to go super high energy and have fun so you dont get awefully badly rejected
because you will if you dont feel like picking up a chick and you try anyway
and you might if youre scared but it also might go great
so moral of the story
be chill
be true
dont self amuse to cover your inner problems such as lack of motivation and fear
dont cover yourself at all
just chill and be true
let your inner self fix itself instead of putting layers of crap over it
one week of non chilling got my nowhere
you need to chill
to me chilling is
being low energy
comfortable with yourself doing nothing and being really low energy
acting on your desires
speaking in alignment with what you are and what you want
yet staying low energy and chill