What would I do right now if I was a complete loser like you
So I've been reading lots of posts about people being complete losers. What I mean by that is, no girls, no money, no lifestyle, no health, no happiness.
You guys are f***ing losers. It's time for a change.
If you don't know me, I'm a cool ass African American (I'm not actually black).
I f*** tons of girls, I have money working for me (I don't work), I have awesome friends, I'm pretty fit and I travel pretty often which is what I like. I'm also an intern for RSD. Oh and I'm 21, and I used to be a loser just like you.
So if you are a complete loser in all areas of life and want a cool ass life in 1 year from now, 2 years from now, you need to start doing the following:
1. Move to a cheap city with a good weather, good night life and good working opportunity. Have a place with your own room near the bars and clubs. No suburb BS or shitty city.
2. Make good friends that like to go out and that encourage or pick up girls with you. I don't care if they are faggots with no game. They have to be good friends, you have to love them, and you need to go out with them.
3. Start going out minimum 4 nights a week. All night. You don't count the number of sets you open. Its a marathon, not a sprint. You open all night until you leave, and you leave when the bar closes and there is no more girls on the street. Don't go out alone and do 4 approaches. That shit doesn't work. Make friends. Beast all night.
4. Money: Start working on your money situation. Make money with a job, and invest your money into passive income streams. You will need to learn and specialize in one or a few income streams. Passive income are things like Websites (internet marketing), Buildings, Laundry mats, Vending machines, TVs with ads, Stocks, a business that you own, etc. You need to learn and specialize. And you need a f***ing job first to invest your money. Work at Mc Donald's if you don't have education I don't care. Live cheaply. No iphones, no blazers, no cars, nothing. You invest all the money you can and you eat rammens.
5. Read self help books, especially the ones recommended by the pua community. Those books will teach you game alone. Don't hang out on forums the only people giving advice on there don't get laid. Don't read pua ebooks, they only want to make money and they don't know shit. You want to be reading at least 10 books a year.
6. Work out and eat healthy. Do crossfit or P90X or anything you want. You need to get in shape. Getting laid isn't fun unless you are in shape. You don't want to die young. You want to be healthy. Its so important. Work out at least 3 times a week and more depending on what you do. If you need to lose weight, eat healthy and stop over eating and drinking (alchool and coke) you fat f***.
7. Start meditating. At least 20 minutes a day. Meditation will make your game 1000 times better. Brad does it. I don't know why it works. It just does. It's magical.
8. At some point take an RSD bootcamp. It will fix some of your game problem and make you get laid more.
9. Forget about TV, computer games, masturbating, eating donuts and all the things you think are fun. They are not fun. They are making you more of a loser every single day.
That's all. That's my life. Do that for a couple of years and you'll be a very rich, very successful and very happy man.
Financial freedom seminar: Millionaire Mind Intensive review
So about 3 years ago I was 19 years old. I had about $1000 to my name and a part time job as a security agent that paid $9 per hour. I had no education, no desire to study or work. All I wanted to do was travel and pick up chicks. I didn't feel this was possible and I was confused and depressed. I felt powerless.
I was so confused that I had signed up for this crappy life coaching program in Toronto. I wont mention the name but it was very crappy. Yet, the guy was a Millionaire Mind Intensive fan and he brought me along since it was free.
The seminar is 3 days long 10 hours or more a day of interactive talks and exercises (no boring stuff). Those guys are like Tony Robbins. They scream at you and brainwash you into thinking the right way.
Before I had beliefs such as:
"I'm too young to make money"
"I'm too stupid to make money"
"I'm too lazy to make money"
"My English isn't good enough to make money"
"You need money to make money"
"Making money is hard"
"Starting a business isn't possible for me"
"I don't want to be rich. Being rich is useless and not for me"
If you know anything about self improvement you know that with beliefs like that there's no way someone can be financially free aka "travel and pick up chicks" like I wanted to.
So after 30 hours of pure brain washing I eradicated all those beliefs and here's just some of the beliefs I have now:
"I manage my money better than anyone I know"
"Making money is not only easy, it is natural and does not require me to work a lot"
"My money works for me and makes me more money"
"Nothing is impossible in term of money. I can live any lifestyle I want"
"Even if I would happen to lose all my money and passive income sources, it does not matter because I know how to make money and it is not difficult"
"I am intelligent and driven enough to make as much money as my lifestyle requires"
"I am financially free and will always be"
Those are my real beliefs. You can ask my friends if you think I'm lying. They are more than beliefs. They are my convictions.
The seminar made a big difference in the way my life played out. You can sign up here if you want. You can sign up for the same 3 days seminar that I took for $97 (used to be free back in the day) or you can sign up for a one evening talk for free.
So guess what happened right after the seminar. I started working on my business. I had a friend I met while traveling. He introduced me to internet marketing. I didn't know jack at the time. I worked every single hour of everyday for 6 months. Do you think I could have done that with my old beliefs? Of course not I would have given up.
After that, I hired employees and stopped working. I managed my money well and saved and re-invested my profits. Do you think I could have done that with my prior beliefs? No I would have spent all my cash on hookers and blow (just kidding).
I started traveling and working whenever I wanted to. I still work from time to time. I had some rough time last September when all my websites got banned by Google. But I had $20k saved up and 10 trained employees ready to do work for me. So I wasn't screwed, because I had managed my money. Now 8 months later I make the same amount of money I was making before.
So you can imagine how sick my life as been ever since. I've been living a nice lifestyle downtown Montreal and Toronto, doing whatever I want, working out, going out every night and day. I even meditate one hour per day. Who has time to do that?
I lived in Thailand and Asia for 6 months, in Brazil for 2 months, in Florida for 2 months and I am now living in San Francisco. Now the only thing that keeps me from traveling is my love for Montreal and my crazy saving habits.
So anyway if you want to sign up just go here. Like I said before it seems that if you want to get the same 3 days seminar that I took it cost $97 but there is a free option also but it's only one evening.
Game in your natural state (Epic post)
First of all, I would like to say that this is an epic post.
Did you know that it was possible to wake up in the morning and go out on the street BY YOURSELF and meet a girl and make a connection instantly?
Did you know that it was possible to feel harmonious and peaceful all the time?
Did you know that you can be in a pick up kind of mind even after working for 10 hours or with no sleep for 2 days?
Did you know that it could be 100% normal to pick up the phone and call a girl that you just met, go have a drink and sleep with her?
All that while remaining in your normal state of mind?
That's what I call gaming in your natural state of mind. To me the natural state of mind would be when you wake up in the morning. It also includes when you're hungry, tried, sad, happy, whatever.
Your state of mind is your state of mind. It doesn't actually change. It's like a switch that's on and off. It's the same switch, just at a slightly different angle.
By putting emphasis on the fact that the switch is on, you automatically put emphasis on the fact that it will be off. By putting emphasis on the fact that you're in a good state, you're putting emphasis on the fact that you will be in a bad state.
If you just put emphasis on the fact that you're state is normal, then you're putting emphasis on the fact that your state will be normal. State can't be abnormal. It's like a switch. It can be on and off. But it can't be abnormal. It's just a switch.
Actually, I just say normal but even no qualifier would be even better. Just state. Not good. Not bad. Not normal. This way. It can't go in any direction.
Emotions, feelings and sensations come and go. It's their nature. Pain is merely a feeling. Fatige is merely a sensation. Happiness is merely an emotion. Why would you focus on something that is so ephemeral? Wake up people! This doesn't make sense.
Look at whatever you're feeling and just look at it. Don't put emphasis on it by talking about it, labelling it, hating it or even LOVING it. Love for a sensation brings craving which brings desire which brings unsatisfaction wich brings you not picking up and taking action and calling your numbers and approaching which brings you to not getting laid.
I'll tell you a story.
It's about a little man called Dave. Dave loves being in state. He goes out with friends. Picks up women. Has fun. Loves life. He feels soooo happy.
Next day Dave wakes up. He feels tired. He doesn't call his numbers. He doesn't feel like it. He feels like working on the computer. He feels even more like crap after working for 8 hours. He goes out at night with his friends. He pumps his state by doing funny things. He loves life again. He's so happy. He feels like picking up so much. He picks up women all night.
Next day he feels like crap again. Dave thinks to himself I should go pick up chicks today. But I don't feel like it. I should work today. But I don't feel like it. Dave thinks "I should travel."
Dave travels to Brazil. Dave LOVES travelling. He feels so happy. After 1 month. Dave feels like crap in brazil. He comes home. He LOVES...
Do you see where this is going? Do you see the pattern? Dave loves and hates too much. As much as Dave loves, as much as Dave hates. Makes him very unhappy and unfocused. He feels like he has no direction or purpose.
So how does this relate to pick up?
Everyone I know in the community refers to "being in state" as something positive to picking up women.
I am sorry to break your bubble of delusion but this is not something positive. If you can be in state, it obviously means that you can be out of state.
If being in state is your default state and you're just in state all the time then you are talking about the same thing as me. You are actually gaming in your natural state, you just choose to use a different way of saying it.
The power of gaming in your natural state is that:
1.You will be more consistant because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
2.You will go out more because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
3.Your game is going to get better SUPER fast because you will be going out a lot. Gaming all the time everywhere.
4.You will pursue numbers and dates any time of the day because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
5.You will have more focus, strenght, harmony and centeredness in your life which is insanely attractive to women.
6.You will get laid a lot more because you will not miss those opportunities that you miss all the time when you're off.
7.You will glow in the dark. (Results may vary)
How do you game in your natural state?
You need to upgrade your level of awerness and harmonious feeling in everyday life.
You do this by being concentrated on your body and thoughts as much as you can. When you feel a sensation of pain or pleasure. You tried to stay as unreactive as possible. You just look and notice. You don't react positively or negatively. Same thing with any sensation such as fatigue, joy, sadness, stress, boredom, excitement, etc. Don't put a label on them. Pain isn't bad. It's merely a sensation. Pleasure is not good, it's merely a sensation.
Just try your best. No one is perfect. Actively doing it when you're alone, working, and stuff like that will make you better at it, hence improve the amount of time you spend in your natural state. You can do it anywhere, anytime, doing anything.
It will improve your natural state because like most poeple, if you're not feeling good, you're probably feeling bad. Do you feel good waking up, walking down the street, right after work? Maybe not, and this will help you. It won't make you feel good. It will make you feel normal, neutral.
Then you want to lower the amount of "happy state" you're using when you go out.
Here's what I did:
I went out alone and I stopped self amusing.
This might seem harsh but it will truely teach you to game in your natural state as in my opinion the 2 things that change your state the most is the presence of your wing and self amusement. If you need this to pick up, then you are attached to it, then you crave it, then you feel happy when you have it and sad when you don't. A good exercise is to go out alone and not self amuse. Just be chill and strait to the point with the chick.
Basically, you want to slowly implement letting go off the positive and negative state that you have when you're going out. You want to level it out. If you're too happy, tone it down, if you're too sad, self amuse a little. All this in order to be in your normal state.
Once you start doing that, picking up becomes kind of a meditation. Everything becomes kind of a meditation.
Starting to game in my normal state was pretty natural for me, what else can someone do to start being more like that? Please comment!
7 days delusional challenge
You might have heard of the 7 days positivity challenge, well I'm announcing the 7 days delusional challenge.
What you do is every time you have a thought that is negative or even slightly positive, you reframe it to something overly optimistic, something delusional. You do it for 7 days. If you fail to reframe it instantly, you lose and start over again.
A good example would be if you go try to pick up a chick and she tells you you're ugly and runs away, you think to yourself that this girl loved you and that you could have slept with her easily if you wanted to. If someone asks "but she ran away, didn't you want to sleep with her?" You would tell him that you just weren't interested.
Some call it being mentally ill. Some call it lying. I call it having a strong reality.
If you’ve never failed, you’ve never lived
Every human being is filled with tremendous potential and abilities, yet too often they go unrealized because of our failure to break free from the social conditions designed to perpetuate avenues of personal failure rather than avenues for actualization and transformation. Also, instead of focusing on narratives of fame, wealth, "just rewards" and getting ahead, we would be better served focusing on narratives of meaning, based on love, compassion, justice, and human freedom.