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Game in your natural state (Epic post)

First of all, I would like to say that this is an epic post.

Did you know that it was possible to wake up in the morning and go out on the street BY YOURSELF and meet a girl and make a connection instantly?

Did you know that it was possible to feel harmonious and peaceful all the time?

Did you know that you can be in a pick up kind of mind even after working for 10 hours or with no sleep for 2 days?

Did you know that it could be 100% normal to pick up the phone and call a girl that you just met, go have a drink and sleep with her?

All that while remaining in your normal state of mind?

That's what I call gaming in your natural state of mind. To me the natural state of mind would be when you wake up in the morning. It also includes when you're hungry, tried, sad, happy, whatever.

Your state of mind is your state of mind. It doesn't actually change. It's like a switch that's on and off. It's the same switch, just at a slightly different angle.

By putting emphasis on the fact that the switch is on, you automatically put emphasis on the fact that it will be off. By putting emphasis on the fact that you're in a good state, you're putting emphasis on the fact that you will be in a bad state.

If you just put emphasis on the fact that you're state is normal, then you're putting emphasis on the fact that your state will be normal. State can't be abnormal. It's like a switch. It can be on and off. But it can't be abnormal. It's just a switch.

Actually, I just say normal but even no qualifier would be even better. Just state. Not good. Not bad. Not normal. This way. It can't go in any direction.

Emotions, feelings and sensations come and go. It's their nature. Pain is merely a feeling. Fatige is merely a sensation. Happiness is merely an emotion. Why would you focus on something that is so ephemeral? Wake up people! This doesn't make sense.

Look at whatever you're feeling and just look at it. Don't put emphasis on it by talking about it, labelling it, hating it or even LOVING it. Love for a sensation brings craving which brings desire which brings unsatisfaction wich brings you not picking up and taking action and calling your numbers and approaching which brings you to not getting laid.

I'll tell you a story.

It's about a little man called Dave. Dave loves being in state. He goes out with friends. Picks up women. Has fun. Loves life. He feels soooo happy.

Next day Dave wakes up. He feels tired. He doesn't call his numbers. He doesn't feel like it. He feels like working on the computer. He feels even more like crap after working for 8 hours. He goes out at night with his friends. He pumps his state by doing funny things. He loves life again. He's so happy. He feels like picking up so much. He picks up women all night.

Next day he feels like crap again. Dave thinks to himself I should go pick up chicks today. But I don't feel like it. I should work today. But I don't feel like it. Dave thinks "I should travel."

Dave travels to Brazil. Dave LOVES travelling. He feels so happy. After 1 month. Dave feels like crap in brazil. He comes home. He LOVES...

Do you see where this is going? Do you see the pattern? Dave loves and hates too much. As much as Dave loves, as much as Dave hates. Makes him very unhappy and unfocused. He feels like he has no direction or purpose.

So how does this relate to pick up?

Everyone I know in the community refers to "being in state" as something positive to picking up women.

I am sorry to break your bubble of delusion but this is not something positive. If you can be in state, it obviously means that you can be out of state.

If being in state is your default state and you're just in state all the time then you are talking about the same thing as me. You are actually gaming in your natural state, you just choose to use a different way of saying it.

The power of gaming in your natural state is that:

1.You will be more consistant because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
2.You will go out more because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
3.Your game is going to get better SUPER fast because you will be going out a lot. Gaming all the time everywhere.
4.You will pursue numbers and dates any time of the day because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
5.You will have more focus, strenght, harmony and centeredness in your life which is insanely attractive to women.
6.You will get laid a lot more because you will not miss those opportunities that you miss all the time when you're off.
7.You will glow in the dark. (Results may vary)

How do you game in your natural state?

You need to upgrade your level of awerness and harmonious feeling in everyday life.

You do this by being concentrated on your body and thoughts as much as you can. When you feel a sensation of pain or pleasure. You tried to stay as unreactive as possible. You just look and notice. You don't react positively or negatively. Same thing with any sensation such as fatigue, joy, sadness, stress, boredom, excitement, etc. Don't put a label on them. Pain isn't bad. It's merely a sensation. Pleasure is not good, it's merely a sensation.

Just try your best. No one is perfect. Actively doing it when you're alone, working, and stuff like that will make you better at it, hence improve the amount of time you spend in your natural state. You can do it anywhere, anytime, doing anything.

It will improve your natural state because like most poeple, if you're not feeling good, you're probably feeling bad. Do you feel good waking up, walking down the street, right after work? Maybe not, and this will help you. It won't make you feel good. It will make you feel normal, neutral.

Then you want to lower the amount of "happy state" you're using when you go out.

Here's what I did:

I went out alone and I stopped self amusing.

This might seem harsh but it will truely teach you to game in your natural state as in my opinion the 2 things that change your state the most is the presence of your wing and self amusement. If you need this to pick up, then you are attached to it, then you crave it, then you feel happy when you have it and sad when you don't. A good exercise is to go out alone and not self amuse. Just be chill and strait to the point with the chick.

Basically, you want to slowly implement letting go off the positive and negative state that you have when you're going out. You want to level it out. If you're too happy, tone it down, if you're too sad, self amuse a little. All this in order to be in your normal state.

Once you start doing that, picking up becomes kind of a meditation. Everything becomes kind of a meditation.

Starting to game in my normal state was pretty natural for me, what else can someone do to start being more like that? Please comment!