RSD bootcamp review with Ryan
What I got from an RSD bootcamp:
I would say that my ability to pick up chicks has improved at least 10 fold. Actually, when I look back I feel like I had absolutely no game at the time (And I had been in the community for 2 years).
I slept with 8 chicks in the last 3 months (Since my bootcamp). Which is almost a double of what I had already been with and I'm 21 years old.
I've pulled and made out with countless chicks. I've made great friends and great connections with a lot of men and women. I definitely think the bootcamp has a lot to do with it.
The bootcamp gave me a little boost of confidence right after which is great momentum for people starting out.
Ryan gave me personalized advice after seeing me talking to girls which was to chill out mostly and be more real and genuine.
The seminar was new stuff that I had never heard of. It totally changed the way I see game.
I feel a lot more confident about my ability to pick up chicks. Actually, now it doesn't make sense to me to not be getting laid since it's so easy to at least find a couple of girls every month.
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You need to chill
for one week i didnt feel like going out
but i did anyway because i have amazing wings that i wanted to hang out with
results was that i only did approaches to self amuse and because my friends were there and we were "picking up chicks"
i noticed that by the end of the week i had lost my ability to chill because i didnt do it for one week
i noticed that my results were terrible and that i didnt have any solid interaction with any woman during that week
i also noticed that day game helps you chill because you dont have friends and music and fun to help you self amuse hence you dont really do it
you just chill
so you need to chill
its essential
its the base of everything
if you cant chill make a concious effort to be chill
do day game its gonna teach you how to pick up chicks and be chill
yeah you can be all fun and energy and shit and itll be awesome to hang out around you
but then its not that easy to instantly fall back into chillness
when youre chill its harder to fake youre speaking more from you core feelings
hence if you dont feel like picking up chicks or youre scared you might be tempted to go super high energy and have fun so you dont get awefully badly rejected
because you will if you dont feel like picking up a chick and you try anyway
and you might if youre scared but it also might go great
so moral of the story
be chill
be true
dont self amuse to cover your inner problems such as lack of motivation and fear
dont cover yourself at all
just chill and be true
let your inner self fix itself instead of putting layers of crap over it
one week of non chilling got my nowhere
you need to chill
to me chilling is
being low energy
comfortable with yourself doing nothing and being really low energy
acting on your desires
speaking in alignment with what you are and what you want
yet staying low energy and chill
Game in your natural state (Epic post)
First of all, I would like to say that this is an epic post.
Did you know that it was possible to wake up in the morning and go out on the street BY YOURSELF and meet a girl and make a connection instantly?
Did you know that it was possible to feel harmonious and peaceful all the time?
Did you know that you can be in a pick up kind of mind even after working for 10 hours or with no sleep for 2 days?
Did you know that it could be 100% normal to pick up the phone and call a girl that you just met, go have a drink and sleep with her?
All that while remaining in your normal state of mind?
That's what I call gaming in your natural state of mind. To me the natural state of mind would be when you wake up in the morning. It also includes when you're hungry, tried, sad, happy, whatever.
Your state of mind is your state of mind. It doesn't actually change. It's like a switch that's on and off. It's the same switch, just at a slightly different angle.
By putting emphasis on the fact that the switch is on, you automatically put emphasis on the fact that it will be off. By putting emphasis on the fact that you're in a good state, you're putting emphasis on the fact that you will be in a bad state.
If you just put emphasis on the fact that you're state is normal, then you're putting emphasis on the fact that your state will be normal. State can't be abnormal. It's like a switch. It can be on and off. But it can't be abnormal. It's just a switch.
Actually, I just say normal but even no qualifier would be even better. Just state. Not good. Not bad. Not normal. This way. It can't go in any direction.
Emotions, feelings and sensations come and go. It's their nature. Pain is merely a feeling. Fatige is merely a sensation. Happiness is merely an emotion. Why would you focus on something that is so ephemeral? Wake up people! This doesn't make sense.
Look at whatever you're feeling and just look at it. Don't put emphasis on it by talking about it, labelling it, hating it or even LOVING it. Love for a sensation brings craving which brings desire which brings unsatisfaction wich brings you not picking up and taking action and calling your numbers and approaching which brings you to not getting laid.
I'll tell you a story.
It's about a little man called Dave. Dave loves being in state. He goes out with friends. Picks up women. Has fun. Loves life. He feels soooo happy.
Next day Dave wakes up. He feels tired. He doesn't call his numbers. He doesn't feel like it. He feels like working on the computer. He feels even more like crap after working for 8 hours. He goes out at night with his friends. He pumps his state by doing funny things. He loves life again. He's so happy. He feels like picking up so much. He picks up women all night.
Next day he feels like crap again. Dave thinks to himself I should go pick up chicks today. But I don't feel like it. I should work today. But I don't feel like it. Dave thinks "I should travel."
Dave travels to Brazil. Dave LOVES travelling. He feels so happy. After 1 month. Dave feels like crap in brazil. He comes home. He LOVES...
Do you see where this is going? Do you see the pattern? Dave loves and hates too much. As much as Dave loves, as much as Dave hates. Makes him very unhappy and unfocused. He feels like he has no direction or purpose.
So how does this relate to pick up?
Everyone I know in the community refers to "being in state" as something positive to picking up women.
I am sorry to break your bubble of delusion but this is not something positive. If you can be in state, it obviously means that you can be out of state.
If being in state is your default state and you're just in state all the time then you are talking about the same thing as me. You are actually gaming in your natural state, you just choose to use a different way of saying it.
The power of gaming in your natural state is that:
1.You will be more consistant because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
2.You will go out more because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
3.Your game is going to get better SUPER fast because you will be going out a lot. Gaming all the time everywhere.
4.You will pursue numbers and dates any time of the day because you will never be on or off. You will only be.
5.You will have more focus, strenght, harmony and centeredness in your life which is insanely attractive to women.
6.You will get laid a lot more because you will not miss those opportunities that you miss all the time when you're off.
7.You will glow in the dark. (Results may vary)
How do you game in your natural state?
You need to upgrade your level of awerness and harmonious feeling in everyday life.
You do this by being concentrated on your body and thoughts as much as you can. When you feel a sensation of pain or pleasure. You tried to stay as unreactive as possible. You just look and notice. You don't react positively or negatively. Same thing with any sensation such as fatigue, joy, sadness, stress, boredom, excitement, etc. Don't put a label on them. Pain isn't bad. It's merely a sensation. Pleasure is not good, it's merely a sensation.
Just try your best. No one is perfect. Actively doing it when you're alone, working, and stuff like that will make you better at it, hence improve the amount of time you spend in your natural state. You can do it anywhere, anytime, doing anything.
It will improve your natural state because like most poeple, if you're not feeling good, you're probably feeling bad. Do you feel good waking up, walking down the street, right after work? Maybe not, and this will help you. It won't make you feel good. It will make you feel normal, neutral.
Then you want to lower the amount of "happy state" you're using when you go out.
Here's what I did:
I went out alone and I stopped self amusing.
This might seem harsh but it will truely teach you to game in your natural state as in my opinion the 2 things that change your state the most is the presence of your wing and self amusement. If you need this to pick up, then you are attached to it, then you crave it, then you feel happy when you have it and sad when you don't. A good exercise is to go out alone and not self amuse. Just be chill and strait to the point with the chick.
Basically, you want to slowly implement letting go off the positive and negative state that you have when you're going out. You want to level it out. If you're too happy, tone it down, if you're too sad, self amuse a little. All this in order to be in your normal state.
Once you start doing that, picking up becomes kind of a meditation. Everything becomes kind of a meditation.
Starting to game in my normal state was pretty natural for me, what else can someone do to start being more like that? Please comment!
Amazing sand art and music on Youtube (This is honestly way cool)
That's one of the craziest thing I've ever seen. I don't know what it is or where it's from, and I don't care, it's just too cool.
How to extract Ipod Touch music and pictures (Free software)
My computer broke down and I lost all my files. I wanted to get some audio files back from my Ipod Touch but as you probably already know, you can't extract files from your Ipod with Itunes only.
I looked around for programs that would extract files and backups from the Ipod and I found Ipodrobot and AVCWare iPod. I tried the freeware version of both of them but they didn't work fully and I couldn't get the job done. So I don't recommend them unless you plan on buying the software. Also don't bother trying to find a crack / keygen / serial for those softwares because there is a free alternative that I found a bit later.
It's a program called SharePod. It's 100% free and works amazingly without restrictions. Click here to extract your songs from your Ipod Touch for free.
Xrumer tutorial – How to use Xrumer for whitehat SEO
A lot of people buy Xrumer and have no idea how to use it. If you're interested in buying it just go to the official Xrumer site.
I have been using Xrumer on my whitehat websites for a couple of months and I've achieved very good rankings and PR from completely new websites. A lot of them went from completely new websites to PR3-5 (They have a few thousand backlinks each). Some of them even started to rank for competitive keywords and bring me a nice income (While some of them are still sandboxed, you can't win everytime).
All of this is completely legit and will never get you banned from Google. Those sites will last years and bring me passive income which is what I'm aiming for.
The first step will be to build a nice base of backlinks with relevant anchor text. From 500-3000 backlinks is good (10 000+ if you want to rank for something very competitive but I don't recommend going into such markets with new sites). You can use any whitehat method to build those backlinks but do not use Xrumer itself. Use directory submissions, forum signatures and profiles, article submissions, Web 2.0 sites, etc. If you want to get the best links, spy on your competition and get the same kind of links as them.
Once you have a good amount of backlinks, use Google or Bing's webmaster tool to export and save all those backlinks into a spreadsheet. You can also use the query "linkdomain:example.org -site:example.org" on Yahoo and save the results using the Firefox addon SEO for Firefox. If you have a list of some of your backlinks that are not even indexed yet that is even better. Just to be clear, those are a list of the links going to YOUR site (Your backlinks).
Then use Hrefer (It comes with Xrumer) to gather a good list of websites to spam. Then start spamming and put all of your backlinks list that you gathered earlier in rotation. Example: {http://url1.com|http://url2.com|http://url3.com|etc.}
Don't use anchor text for those (Use anchor text on your real links, those are only links to your links, not directly to your website).
Do not post more than one link per post because otherwise you will link them with each other which makes it detectable by Google.
You can use any kind of content for the posts but make sure they are VERY spinned (Use lots of keyword tokens such as {hello|hi|good morning|etc.}.
Use a text editor like Excel and Editplus to place all the urls in the right format without it taking hours. Use the "join line" function and the "replace all" function.
That's it. In a couple of months you'll start getting good PR and good rankings. This strategy will not get you banned, a bad reputation nor will give you any penalty on Google.